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  November 17/2009 - Tuesday 33rd Week of  Ordinary Time 

 

LITURGICAL/THEME MEDITATION:

"Zacchaeus made haste and received Jesus joyfully"

UNIVERSAL CHURCH/WORLD EVENT(S):

U.S. Bishops Renew Resolve on Health Care Reform

SAINT OF THE DAY

St. Elizabeth of Hungary

 GENERAL MARIOLOGY
Nativity of the Virgin Mary

 DIVINE MERCY

Divine Mercy in My Soul

My Preparation for Holy Communion

 TEACHING/TESTIMONY/CONVICTION:

BEING GOOD FRIENDS: HOW TO GET ONE

 

DAILY LITURGICAL MEDITATION

 
 
Tuesday (11/17):  "Zacchaeus made haste and received Jesus joyfully"

Scripture:  Luke 19:1-10

1 He entered Jericho and was passing through. 2 And there was a man named Zacchae'us; he was a chief tax collector, and rich.  3 And he sought to see who Jesus was, but could not, on account of the crowd, because he was small of stature. 4 So he ran on ahead and climbed up into a sycamore tree to see him, for he was to pass that way. 5 And when Jesus came to the place, he looked up and said to him, "Zacchae'us, make haste and come down; for I must stay at your house today." 6 So he made haste and came down, and received him joyfully. 7 And when they saw it they all murmured, "He has gone in to be the guest of a man who is a sinner." 8 And Zacchae'us stood and said to the Lord, "Behold, Lord, the half of my goods I give to the poor; and if I have defrauded any one of  anything, I restore it fourfold." 9 And Jesus said to him, "Today salvation has come to this house, since he also is a son of Abraham. 10 For the Son of man came to seek and to save the lost."

Meditation: What would you do if Jesus knocked on your door and said, "I must stay at your home today"? Would you be excited or embarrassed? Jesus often "dropped-in" at unexpected times and he often visited the "uninvited" – the poor, the lame, and even public sinners like Zacchaeus, the tax collector! Tax collectors were despised and treated as outcasts, no doubt because they over-charged people and accumulated great wealth at the expense of others. Zacchaeus was a chief tax collector and was much hated by all the people. Why would Jesus single him out for the honor of staying at his home? Zacchaeus needed God's merciful love and forgiveness. In his encounter with Jesus he found more than he imagined possible. He shows the depth of his repentance by deciding to give half of his goods to the poor and to use the other half for making restitution for fraud. Zacchaeus' testimony included more than words. His change of heart resulted in a change of life, a change that the whole community could experience as genuine.

Saint Augustine of Hippo urges us to climb the sycamore tree like Zacchaeus that we might see Jesus and embrace his cross for our lives:

    Zacchaeus climbed away from the crowd and saw Jesus without the crowd getting in his way. The crowd laughs at the lowly, to people walking the way of humility, who leave the wrongs they suffer in God’s hands and do not insist on getting back at their enemies. The crowd laughs at the lowly and says, “You helpless, miserable clod, you cannot even stick up for yourself and get back what is your own.” The crowd gets in the way and prevents Jesus from being seen. The crowd boasts and crows when it is able to get back what it owns. It blocks the sight of the one who said as he hung on the cross, “Father, forgive them, because they do not know what they are doing. … He ignored the crowd that was getting in his way. He instead climbed a sycamore tree, a tree of “silly fruit.” As the apostle says, “We preach Christ crucified, a stumbling block indeed to the Jews, [now notice the sycamore] but folly to the Gentiles.” Finally, the wise people of this world laugh at us about the cross of Christ and say, “What sort of minds do you people have, who worship a crucified God?” What sort of minds do we have? They are certainly not your kind of mind. “The wisdom of this world is folly with God.” No, we do not have your kind of mind. You call our minds foolish. Say what you like, but for our part, let us climb the sycamore tree and see Jesus. The reason you cannot see Jesus is that you are ashamed to climb the sycamore tree.
Let Zacchaeus grasp the sycamore tree, and let the humble person climb the cross. That is little enough, merely to climb it. We must not be ashamed of the cross of Christ, but we must fix it on our foreheads, where the seat of shame is. Above where all our blushes show is the place we must firmly fix that for which we should never blush. As for you, I rather think you make fun of the sycamore, and yet that is what has enabled me to see Jesus. You make fun of the sycamore, because you are just a person, but “the foolishness of God is wiser than men. Sermon 174.3.
 The Lord Jesus is always ready to make his home with each one of us. Do you make room for him in your heart and in every area of your life?

"Lord Jesus, come and stay with me. Fill my life with your peace, my home with your presence, and my heart with your praise. Help me to show kindness, mercy, and goodness to all, even to those who cause me ill-will or harm."

Psalm 15

1 O LORD, who shall sojourn in thy tent? Who shall dwell on thy holy hill?
2 He who walks blamelessly, and does what is right, and speaks truth from his heart;
3 who does not slander with his tongue, and does no evil to his friend, nor takes up a reproach against his neighbor;
4 in whose eyes a reprobate is despised, but who honors those who fear the LORD;  who swears to his own hurt and does not change;
5 who does not put out his money at interest, and does not take a bribe against the innocent.  He who does these things shall never be moved.
 

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UNIVERSAL CHURCH/WORLD EVENTS

 

U.S. Bishops Renew Resolve on Health Care Reform

Laud House Decision, Prepare to Work With Senate


 
BALTIMORE, Maryland, NOV. 16, 2009 (Zenit.org).- As the U.S. bishops closed the first session of their fall general assembly today, the president introduced an item not on the agenda, but "critical:" the country's health care reform.

Cardinal Francis George of Chicago, president of the U.S. bishops' conference, underlined the health care debate as "one of the most critical issues" of the country and the conference.

He read a statement and asked for the approval of the conference in order to release it on behalf of all.

The statement, dated Nov. 17, thanked those congress members who voted against including the federal funding of abortion in the health care reform plan of the House of Representatives.

Cardinal George clarified that the conference is not approving specific means to be employed in the proposed health care policy, but rather is emphasizing principles such as universal access and the right to life of every human person.

He underlined the conference's commitment to work now to persuade the senate to follow similar principles, to also exclude abortion funding from their reform proposal.

Health care is "about human beings," the prelate said, and hence it has "serious moral consequences."

Principles, not politics

In a press conference after the session, Bishop William Murphy of Rockville Centre, New York, chairman of the bishops' Domestic Justice Committee, affirmed the conference's desire to emphasize "principles, not politics."

The prelate, who has been overseeing the conference's health care efforts, said of the House of Representative's decision, "We have a sense of a job well done by staff who have made a principled stand."

The bishops do not do politics, he said, but "we're in a world of politics," so we had to deal with those who have the responsibility to make the laws.

The bishop underlined the conference's desire to look for a "principled position" that will continue a law to prevent the use of taxpayer money for abortion.

"Killing a child in the womb is not health care," he stated.

There were members of congress who agreed with the Church on these ideals, he noted, and "we were able to work with them."

Bishop Murphy underlined the conference's continued commitment to this effort: "We are pleased to have come this far, but we know that we have a road ahead of us."

It is a "different situation in the senate," he noted, underlining the need to see who is "committed to the same ideals that we are."

The prelate stated that U.S. President Barack Obama "made it clear" that he was committed to remain "abortion neutral."

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DAILY LITURGICAL SAINT

   

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

St. Elizabeth of Hungary
(1207-1231)
 

In her short life Elizabeth manifested such great love for the poor and suffering that she has become the patroness of Catholic charities and of the Secular Franciscan Order. The daughter of the King of Hungary, Elizabeth chose a life of penance and asceticism when a life of leisure and luxury could easily have been hers. This choice endeared her in the hearts of the common people throughout Europe.

At the age of 14 Elizabeth was married to Louis of Thuringia (a German principality), whom she deeply loved; she bore three children. Under the spiritual direction of a Franciscan friar, she led a life of prayer, sacrifice and service to the poor and sick. Seeking to become one with the poor, she wore simple clothing. Daily she would take bread to hundreds of the poorest in the land, who came to her gate.

After six years of marriage, her husband died in the Crusades, and she was grief-stricken. Her husband’s family looked upon her as squandering the royal purse, and mistreated her, finally throwing her out of the palace. The return of her husband’s allies from the Crusades resulted in her being reinstated, since her son was legal heir to the throne.

In 1228 Elizabeth joined the Secular Franciscan Order, spending the remaining few years of her life caring for the poor in a hospital which she founded in honor of St. Francis. Elizabeth’s health declined, and she died before her 24th birthday in 1231. Her great popularity resulted in her canonization four years later.
 

Comment:

Elizabeth understood well the lesson Jesus taught when he washed his disciples' feet at the Last Supper: The Christian must be one who serves the humblest needs of others, even if one serves from an exalted position. Of royal blood, Elizabeth could have lorded it over her subjects. Yet she served them with such a loving heart that her brief life won for her a special place in the hearts of many. Elizabeth is also an example to us in her following the guidance of a spiritual director. Growth in the spiritual life is a difficult process. We can play games very easily if we don't have someone to challenge us or to share experiences so as to help us avoid pitfalls.

 
Quote:

"Today, there is an inescapable duty to make ourselves the neighbor of every individual, without exception, and to take positive steps to help a neighbor whom we encounter, whether that neighbor be an elderly person, abandoned by everyone, a foreign worker who suffers the injustice of being despised, a refugee, an illegitimate child wrongly suffering for a sin of which the child is innocent, or a starving human being who awakens our conscience by calling to mind the words of Christ: 'As long as you did it for one of these, the least of my brethren, you did it for me' (Matthew 25:40)" (Pastoral Constitution on the Church in the Modern World, 27, Austin Flannery translation).

 
Patron Saint of:

Bakers

 

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GENERAL MARIOLOGY

 

 

Nativity of the Virgin Mary


The Gospel of Pseudo-Matthew
Translation by Saint Jerome

CHAP. 3. -- At the same time there appeared a young man on the
mountains to Joachim while he was feeding his flocks, and said to him: Why
dost thou not return to thy wife? And Joachim said: I have had her for
twenty years, and it has not been the will of God to give me children by
her. I have been driven with shame and reproach from the temple of the
Lord: why should I go back to her, when I have been once cast off and
utterly despised? Here then will I remain with my sheep; and so long as in
this life God is willing to grant me light, I shall willingly, by the hands
of my servants, bestow their portions upon the poor, and the orphans, and
those that fear God. And when he had thus spoken, the young man said to
him: I am an angel of the Lord, and I have to-day appeared to thy wife when
she was weeping and praying, and have consoled her; and know that she has
conceived a daughter from thy seed, and thou in thy ignorance of this hast
left her. She will be in the temple of God, and the Holy Spirit shall abide
in her; and her blessedness shall be greater than that of all the holy
women, so that no one can say that any before her has been like her, or
that any after her in this world will be so. Therefore go down from the
mountains, and return to thy wife, whom thou wilt find with child. For God
hath raised up seed in her, and for this thou wilt give God thanks; and her
seed shall be blessed, and she herself shall be blessed, and shall be made
the mother of eternal blessing. Then Joachim adored the angel, and said to
him: If I have found favour in thy sight, sit for a little in my tent, and
bless thy servant. (1) And the angel said to him: Do not say servant, but
fellow-servant; for we are the servants of one Master. (2) But my food is
invisible, and my drink cannot be seen by a mortal. Therefore thou oughtest
not to ask me to enter thy tent; but if thou wast about to give me
anything, (3) offer it as a burnt-offering to the Lord. Then Joachim took a
lamb without spot, and said to the angel: I should not have dared to offer
a burnt-offering to the Lord, unless thy command had given me the priest's
right of offering. (4) And the angel said to him: I should not have invited
thee to offer unless I had known the will of the Lord. And when Joachim was
offering the sacrifice to God, the angel and the odour of the sacrifice
went together straight up to heaven with the smoke. (5)

    Then Joachim, throwing himself on his face, lay in prayer from the
sixth hour of the day even until evening. And his lads and hired servants
who were with him saw him, and not knowing why he was lying down, thought
that he was dead; and they came to him, and with difficulty raised him from
the ground. And when he recounted to them the vision of the angel, they
were struck with great fear and wonder, and advised him to accomplish the
vision of the angel without delay, and to go back with all haste to his
wife. And when Joachim was turning over in his mind whether he should go
back or not, it happened that he was overpowered by a deep sleep; and,
behold, the angel who had already appeared to him when awake, appeared to
him in his sleep, saying: I am the angel appointed by God as thy guardian:
go down with confidence, and return to Anna, because the deeds of mercy
which thou and thy wife Anna have done have been told in the presence of
the Most High; and to you will God give such fruit as no prophet or saint
has ever had from the beginning, or ever will have. And when Joachim awoke
out of his sleep, he called all his herdsmen to him, and told them his
dream. And they worshipped the Lord, and said to him: See that thou no
further despise the words of the angel. But rise and let us go hence, and
return at a quiet pace, feeding our flocks.

    And when, after thirty days occupied in going back, they were now near
at hand, behold, the angel of the Lord appeared to Anna, who was standing
and praying, and said: (6) Go to the gate which is called Golden, (7) and
meet thy husband in the way, for to-day he will come to thee. She therefore
went towards him in haste With her maidens, and, praying to the Lord, she
stood a  long time in the gate waiting for him. And when she was wearied
with long waiting, she lifted up  her eyes and saw Joachim afar off coming
with his flocks; and she ran to him and hung on his neck, giving thanks to
God, and saying: I was a widow, and behold now I am not so: I was barren,
and behold I have now conceived. And so they worshipped the Lord, and went
into their own house. And when this was heard of, there was great joy among
all their neighbours and acquaintances, so that the whole land of lsrael
congratulated them.

 
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DIVINE MERCY

 

Divine Mercy In my soul
 

The Mercy of the Lord I will sing Forever.
Divine Mercy in my soul.
Sr. Faustina, Diary
 

My Preparation for
Holy Communion

J.M.J.
 

Today, my preparation for the coming of Jesus is brief, but imprinted deeply with vehement love. The presence of God penetrates me and sets aflame my love for Him. There are no words; there is only interior understanding. I drown completely in God, through love. The Lord approaches the dwelling of my heart. After receiving Communion, I have just enough presence of mind to return to my kneeler. At the same time, my soul is completely lost in God, and I no longer know what is going on about me. God gives me an interior knowledge of His Divine Being. These moments are short, but penetrating. The soul leaves the chapel in profound recollection, and it is not easy to distract it. At such time, I touch the ground with only one foot, as it were. No sacrifice throughout such a day is either difficult or burdensome. Every situation evokes a new act of love.

Today, I invite Jesus to my heart, as Love. You are Love itself. All heaven catches the flame from You and is filled with love. And so my soul covets You as a flower yearns for the sun. Jesus, hasten to my heart, for You see that, as the flower is eager for the sun, so my heart is for You. I open the calyx of my heart to receive Your Love.

When Jesus came to my heart, everything in my soul trembled with life and with warmth. Jesus, take the love from my heart and pour it into Your love, Your love which is burning and radiant, which knows how to bear each sacrifice, which knows how to forget itself completely.

Today, my day is marked by sacrifice.
Today, I prepare for the coming of the King.

What am I, and who are You, O Lord, King of eternal glory? O my heart, are you aware of who is coming to you today? Yes, I know, but – strangely – I am not able to grasp it. Oh, if He were just a King, but He is the King of Kings, the Lord of lords. Before Him, all power and dominion tremble. He is coming to my heart today. But I hear Him approaching. I go out to meet Him and invite Him. When He entered the dwelling of my heart, it was filled with such reverence that it fainted with fear, falling at His feet. Jesus gives her His hand and graciously permits her to take her place beside Him. He reassures her, saying, See, I have left My heavenly throne to become united with you. What you see is just a tiny part and already your soul swoons with love. How amazed will your heart be when you see Me in all My glory.

But I want to tell you that eternal life must begin already here on earth through Holy Communion. Each Holy Communion makes you more capable of communing with God throughout eternity.

And so, my King, I do not ask You for anything, although I know that You can give me everything. I ask You for one thing only: remain forever the King of my heart, that is enough for me.


 

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 CATHOLIC  TEACHING/CONVICTION/TESTIMONY

   

BEING GOOD FRIENDS: HOW TO GET ONE

by Duy Ðức

A

nyone can have friends. Even people whom we dislike intensely for various reasons have their own friends. But in my experience, there are friends, then there are friends. One of the most common things I have heard from people is that they have a lot of friends, but it is difficult for them to have close friends. In many ways, making good friends is a skill, and like all skills, it must be learned, practiced, and refined.
 

First, however, let us discuss what it means to have a friendship. Friendship is an in-depth relationship between two individuals in which there are trust, support, communication, loyalty, understanding, empathy, and intimacy. Indeed, a friend is someone we can feel comfortable around no matter what state we are in. It's just like when we go to somebody's house for the weekend. While we are there, we have a lot of fun experiencing something different. But the moment we get back to our own house, our own room, a feeling of relaxation comes upon us, and we say, "Home at last!" In many ways, that's how it is with a friend. No matter where we go, whom we talk to, what images we have to put on at school or at work, a friend is someone we can come "home" to and be able to say, "At last, I don't have to worry about anything." We can take off our shoes, put our feet on the coffee table, turn on our favorite music CD with a friend.
 

There are many things a good friend can do for us. First, they help us to grow in self-knowledge. In other words, by relating to our friend, we discover new things about ourselves. A friend may introduce us to things that we liked without even knowing it. For example, we may never discover our interest for poetry until a friend drags us to a poetry reading or show us a poem he liked. We find out the things that we both like -- a certain sport, a particular style of music, some foods. At the same time, we can also find out things that are different between us. Our friend may like phôû* the best while we like spring rolls the best. A friend may like to take walks in the afternoon while we prefer to sit around and watch television. Whether similarities or differences, a good friend will always be able to help us grow in self-knowledge.
 

A second way that a good friend can help us is by expanding our outlook on life. For example, we may make a friend who is of a different race and culture. She has different ideas about clothes, food, and religion, etc.. In many ways, these things that are different from us can help us to see that there is other ways of looking at the world beside what we are used to. Thus, we can break out of our own shells. For example, I would never have gone skydiving if a friend of mine didn't convince me that it was a thrilling experience and that I would enjoy it tremendously. A friend may also introduce us to technologies that we didn't know about, or even spiritual groups that we didn't know about.
 

Third, a friend is a good source of encouragement. A good friend will never want to see us fail and don't feel the need to put us down in order to lift himself up. He wants to encourage us so that we can overcome the difficulties and the stress that we experience in our daily life.
 

Fourth, a good friend is not only good at giving but also good at receiving. In other words, a good friend offers us company, love, support, but he will also be able to receive these things from us. Therefore, it is a reciprocal relationship of giving and receiving. Good friends allow us to exercise our skills of listening to them, encouraging them, supporting them, and loving them. They help us to practice at being good friends ourselves.
 

Finally, good friends help us to grow in our ability to trust. In this competitive world, it is very difficult to trust people because it seems that everyone wants what we have. Nevertheless, a good friend helps us to be able to trust in someone else. If we live without trust, it would be a very unhappy life.
 

While good friends are important, like many things in life, they don't come automatically. Making good friends require hard and continuous work. Let us consider the necessary steps in making a good friend:
 

1. People Equal Friends.
 

There is a certain chemistry with friends just as in a love relationship. Therefore, contact with other people is the first building block to grow a friend. Friends can't grow in a vacuum. Best friends take time.
 

2. Talking Is Essential Among Friends.
 

Talking between friends requires reciprocity. In a mutually satisfying friendship, both friends talk and both friends listen. Friends talk appropriately to each other.
 

3. Friends Acknowledge Friends.
 

Friends acknowledge each other when talking. Many conflicts in your personal relationships can be avoided if you will take the time to acknowledge other's feelings and points of view.
 

4. Friends Listen to Friends.
 

Listening to friends in an important step in building a closer friendship. We often take listening for granted, never realizing what it means to really listen to a friend.
 

5. Friends Attend to Friends.
 

Friends focus during conversations. Friends pay attention in conversations. It means that your ears, your eyes, your body and your feelings are all focused on that person at the time.
 

6. Friends Show Empathy With Friends.
 

Empathy is identifying with your friend's feelings and seeing life through your friend's eyes. Confidences are freely given when they are received with empathy among friends.
 

7. Friends Touch Friends.
 

Touching is a warm form of communication between friends. When you see best friends communicating, you will notice friends "listen with their eyes," stand close together, and touch comfortably.
 

8. Friends Praise Friends.
 

Affirmation is a powerful tool for growing a friend. Genuine praise can affect your friends' lives. Be liberal with praise for all of your friends, including your casual ones.
 

9. Friends Are Loyal and Trustworthy.
 

Trust and loyalty go hand-in-hand for friends. Friends can trust you with their secrets, both large and small, because good friends never break a confidence. Good friends are forever loyal!
 

10. Friends are Equal.
 

Friends are on a seesaw. In a healthy relationship, friends are equals. Not 50/50 every time, of course, but with a true, lasting friendship it always evens out in the end.
 

11. Friends Reveal Their Feelings.
 

We feel closest to our friends when we are suffering together, when we feel like our friend needs us, or when we feel a friend has shared something of great importance with us.
 

12. Friends Forego Mind Reading.
 

The friend who thinks, "If you really liked me, you could read my mind" can not have an adult friendship. No friend can read your mind. And you can not read your friend's mind.
 

As we can see, forming long lasting friendship requires time, effort, and patience. A friend is not someone we can buy with money or falsehood, but must acquire through genuine love and care. Let us strive to be good friends to others so that our life may also be enriched by the goodness that friends can provide us.

 

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